Believe Quote by Christopher Voss
“People typically only believe they're in a negotiation when dollars are involved. And maybe sometimes they're smart enough to see if there's a commodity that you can count being exchanged. And, of course, the commodity that we most commonly exchange is money.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss, 2016
People only recognize negotiations when money or a tangible exchange is present, overlooking subtle power dynamics.
In simple terms: Negotiations are seen as monetary deals.
Spot non‑monetary bargaining cues.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- business deals
- salary talks
- relationship conflicts
- political talks
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What non‑financial terms are being negotiated?
- How can you identify hidden value?
Money isn’t the only leverage; emotions and values matter.