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Children Quote by Cheryl Strayed

“I can’t tell you what to do. No one can. But as the mother of two children, I can tell you what most moms will: that mothering is absurdly hard and profoundly sweet. Like the best thing you ever did. Like if you think you want to have a baby, you probably should. I say this in spite of the fact…” quote by Cheryl Strayed
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““I can’t tell you what to do. No one can. But as the mother of two children, I can tell you what most moms will: that mothering is absurdly hard and profoundly sweet. Like the best thing you ever did. Like if you think you want to have a baby, you probably should. I say this in spite of the fact that children are giant endless suck machines. They don’t give a whit if you need to sleep or eat or pee or get your work done or go out to a party naked and oiled up in a homemade Alice B. Toklas mask. They take everything. They will bring you the furthest edge of your personality and abso-fucking-lutely to your knees. They will also give you everything back. Not just all they take, but many of the things you lost before they came along as well.””

Cheryl Strayed

About This Quote

Source Essay: 2018, Motherhood Reflections

Motherhood is simultaneously extremely hard and deeply rewarding, reshaping identity.

In simple terms: Motherhood is tough but sweet, changing you.

Key Takeaway

Embrace both challenges and joys.

Themes

parenthood sacrifice growth

Mood

reflective intimate

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • newborn care
  • career balance
  • personal development

Key Concepts

Identity love resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “absurdly hard” mean to you?
  • How does motherhood reshape your sense of self?
A Different Perspective

The hardships can feel overwhelming and isolating.

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