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Advice Quote by Cheryl Strayed

“Of course you want someone special to love you. A majority of the people who write to me inquire about how they can get the same thing... Unique as every letter is, the point each writer reaches is the same: I want love and I'm afraid I'll never get it. It's hard to answer those letters because…” quote by Cheryl Strayed
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“Of course you want someone special to love you. A majority of the people who write to me inquire about how they can get the same thing... Unique as every letter is, the point each writer reaches is the same: I want love and I'm afraid I'll never get it. It's hard to answer those letters because I'm an advice columnist, not a fortune-teller. I have words instead of a crystal ball. I can't say when you'll get love or how you'll find it or even promise that you will. I can only say you are worthy of it and that it's never too much to ask for it.”

Cheryl Strayed

About This Quote

The passage acknowledges universal longing for love while emphasizing self‑worth and realistic expectations, rejecting magical solutions.

In simple terms: Love is a common desire, but self‑worth matters.

Key Takeaway

You are worthy of love, no crystal ball needed.

Themes

Longing Self‑worth Realism Vulnerability Hope

Mood

Hopeful Empathetic Encouraging

Type

Advice Reflection

When to use this quote

  • Writing to an advice column
  • Feeling isolated in love pursuits
  • Seeking validation
  • Coping with fear of being unloved

Key Concepts

Desire for connection Self‑acceptance Advice vs prophecy Emotional honesty

Practical Applications

  • Therapeutic counseling
  • Self‑help literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to embody your worthiness?
  • How might you shift from waiting for love to creating opportunities for it?
A Different Perspective

Some may argue that proactive strategies, not just self‑worth, are essential to finding love.

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