Family Quote by Catherynne M. Valente
““You'll forgive the flowery talk, won't you? Our family does so love to be told they are beautiful. Vanity is an old and venerable habit.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Invention of Ghosts, 2016
People often use flowery compliments as a comforting habit, even if it borders on vanity.
In simple terms: Flattering language can hide vanity.
Key Takeaway
Be sincere, avoid empty praise.
Themes
vanity
family dynamics
communication
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
psychological
social
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- social media
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
social psychology
self‑image
habitual behavior
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we enjoy hearing we are beautiful?
- When does praise become insincere?
A Different Perspective
May dismiss genuine appreciation.
