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Admire Quote by Brené Brown

“Why, when we know that there's no such thing as perfect, do most of us spend an incredible amount of time and energy trying to be everything to everyone? Is it that we really admire perfection? No - the truth is that we are actually drawn to people who are real and down-to-earth. We love…” quote by Brené Brown
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“Why, when we know that there's no such thing as perfect, do most of us spend an incredible amount of time and energy trying to be everything to everyone? Is it that we really admire perfection? No - the truth is that we are actually drawn to people who are real and down-to-earth. We love authenticity and we know that life is messy and imperfect.”

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Daring Greatly, Brené Brown, 2012

People chase perfection despite knowing it’s unattainable, because they value authenticity and connection over flawless images.

In simple terms: We seek authenticity, not perfection.

Key Takeaway

Embrace imperfection and focus on genuine connections.

Themes

authenticity perfection self‑acceptance relationships

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

inspirational psychological

When to use this quote

  • teamwork
  • leadership
  • personal growth
  • mental health

Key Concepts

Vulnerability social comparison human imperfection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “being everything to everyone” cost you personally?
  • How can you cultivate authenticity in daily life?
A Different Perspective

Perfectionism can be a barrier to authenticity; cultural pressure may reinforce it.

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