Remember Quote by Brené Brown
““Whenever I'm faced with a vulnerable situation, I get deliberate with my intentions by repeating this to myself: "Don't shrink. Don't puff up. stand your sacred ground." Saying this little mantra helps me remember not to get too small so other people are comfortable and not throw up my armor as a way to protect myself.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Power of Vulnerability, Brené Brown, 2012
Balancing confidence and humility prevents over‑ or under‑assertion, maintaining personal boundaries while staying open.
In simple terms: Stay confident but not arrogant; stay humble but not timid.
Key Takeaway
Maintain balanced self‑presence.
Themes
self‑esteem
boundaries
vulnerability
Mood
reflective
empowering
Type
advice
motivational
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- conflict resolution
- team leadership
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
assertiveness
self‑compassion
authenticity
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you decide when to stand firm versus when to yield?
- What cues tell you you’re shrinking or puffing up?
A Different Perspective
May be hard to gauge the exact level of assertiveness in complex social dynamics.
