Friendship Quote by Benjamin Alire Sáenz
““I had a rule that it was better to be bored by yourself than to be bored with someone else. I pretty much lived by that rule. Maybe that's why I didn't have any friends.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Invention of Everything Else by Benjamin Alire Sáenz, 2012
Preferring solitary boredom over shared boredom reflects a deep desire for authentic self‑connection and fear of superficial companionship.
In simple terms: Better to be alone and bored than with others.
Key Takeaway
Embrace solitude to discover true self.
Themes
solitude
authenticity
friendship
self‑reflection
Mood
reflective
melancholy
Type
personal
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal journaling
- creative work
- mindful meditation
- solo travel
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
existentialism
personal boundaries
social anxiety
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you choose solitude for safety or fear?
- How might shared boredom foster deeper bonds?
A Different Perspective
Loneliness may still persist despite solitude, and isolation can hinder growth.
