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Marriage Quote by Barbara Kingsolver

“At some point in the evening Dellarobia had stopped being amazed that Ovid had turned into someone new, and understood he had become himself, in the presence of his wife. With the sense of a great weight settling, she recognized marriage. Not the precarious risk she's balanced for years against…” quote by Barbara Kingsolver
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““At some point in the evening Dellarobia had stopped being amazed that Ovid had turned into someone new, and understood he had become himself, in the presence of his wife. With the sense of a great weight settling, she recognized marriage. Not the precarious risk she's balanced for years against forbidden fruits, something easily lost in a brittle moment by flying away or jumping a train to ride off on someone else's steam. She was not about to lose it. She'd never had it.””

Barbara Kingsolver

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver, 1988

A woman realizes marriage is a lasting commitment, not a fleeting risk, and decides to protect it.

In simple terms: She sees marriage as a stable, valuable bond.

Key Takeaway

Cherish and safeguard lasting relationships.

Themes

commitment marriage identity risk stability

Mood

reflective hopeful thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage decisions
  • long‑term relationships
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

self‑realization relationship dynamics personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance personal freedom with commitment?
  • What risks are worth taking in love?
A Different Perspective

The quote idealizes marriage without acknowledging its challenges.

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