Communication Quote by Alice Miller
““Relationships based on masklike communication of this kind cannot change. They remain what they have always been: instances of mis-communication. A genuine relationship is possible only if both partners can admit their feelings, experience them and communicate them to each other without fear. It is fine and uplifting when this happens. But it is rare, because both partners' fear of giving up the accustomed façade or mask prevents any genuine exchange.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Drama of the Gifted Child, 1979
Mask-like communication prevents genuine connection; true relationships need honest emotional sharing without fear.
In simple terms: Fearful masks block real intimacy.
Cultivate honest, fearless communication.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you create safe spaces for openness?
- What fears keep you behind a mask?
People may resist vulnerability.