Erich fromm Quote by Ada Calhoun
““To love somebody is not just a strong feeling -- it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise," writes psychologist Erich Fromm. "If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision?””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, 1956
Love is a conscious choice and commitment, not merely an emotion; it requires judgment and promise for lasting partnership.
In simple terms: Love is a decision, not just feeling.
Key Takeaway
Choose love deliberately.
Themes
commitment
choice
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- long‑term partnership
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
ethics
philosophy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you turn affection into a promise?
- What decisions sustain love over time?
A Different Perspective
Feelings alone cannot guarantee durability.
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