Love Quote by Erich Fromm
““To love somebody is not just a strong feeling—it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision?””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, 1956
Love is an active choice involving commitment and judgment, not merely a fleeting emotion.
In simple terms: Love is a decision, not just a feeling.
Key Takeaway
Choose love through commitment.
Themes
love
commitment
choice
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
- friendship
- parenting
Key Concepts
Existentialism
humanistic psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you turn affection into a promise?
- What decisions sustain love?
A Different Perspective
Feelings alone cannot guarantee lasting bonds.
