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Decision Quote by Erich Fromm

“To love somebody is not just a strong feeling - it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise.” quote by Erich Fromm
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“To love somebody is not just a strong feeling - it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise.”

Erich Fromm

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Loving, 1956

Love is an active choice and commitment, not merely an emotion; it involves judgment and promise.

In simple terms: Love is a decision, not just feeling.

Key Takeaway

Choose love consciously and uphold promises.

Themes

love commitment choice ethics

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship
  • self‑love practices
  • community building

Key Concepts

existentialism humanism relationship theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • What promises do you make in love?
  • How do you balance feeling and decision?
A Different Perspective

Love alone cannot sustain relationships without effort.

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