The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
It is not your duty or responsibility to change the minds of other people. The nature of their thinking is advanced or… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Until you are willing to accept total and complete responsibility for every aspect of your life, your life will keep sending you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I'm moving into that eldership age, you know? I'm at the 'wise woman' age where it's not about learning, but utilizing the… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
One of the greatest challenges in creating a joyful, peaceful and abundant life is taking responsibility for what you do and how… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In speaking the truth of your experience to another, it will serve you well to realize that how they choose to respond… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
People have a right to change their minds and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. People change. As people change,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Loving yourself has nothing to do with being selfish, self-centered or self-engrossed. It means that you accept yourself for what you are.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
