“victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder, in order to excuse your behavior.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Commonsense will never come from following your heart; wisdom is only stored in the mind.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is always willing to give you the best life possible. If you change your mind at any time you are free… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is always trying to give blessings to us, but our minds are usually too full to receive them.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never give a person a piece of your mind when all you really wanted to do was give them a piece of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The battle you are going through is not fueled by the words or actions of others; it is fueled by the mind… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I am not the moon orbiting around your planet; I am the sun that will burn through your frozen mind.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Act with God's compassion, mercy and forgiveness in mind and you will always be right. Act with revenge in your heart and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it and in… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“We have all at one time been stranded on islands shouting lies across the seas of misunderstanding, hoping the fog will carry… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Being different will always threaten the institution of understanding of a closed mind. However, evolution is built on difference, changing and the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“In a narcissist's world you are not their one and only. You are an extension of that person and last place in… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The problem with people that ignore people they dislike is they can’t ignore them. Anger carries a person in your mind forever,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“To think because you have been “saved” that you are now sane is insanity. God doesn’t fix the mind. He only gives… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The good part about having a mental disorder is having a valid reason for all the stupid things we do because of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Awards and recognition are not the purpose of life and not the goal of an activist. The heart of an activist usually… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A balanced life isn’t to do as we please, but to learn to do what is right. A person that is truly… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I think more people would stay active in church, if they didn't get so offended by the actions of members. Sometimes, you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“There are so many battles worth fighting for. The ones not worth fighting are the insecure battles that rage in another person’s… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“To die old with a young mind is such a tragedy. Naiveness was never a blessing.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A boy has other people do the talking for him; a man speaks his mind.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I have always found the hardest mind to change is one that is religious.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Unless she scares the hell out of you, blows the cobwebs from your mind, scorches your heart with passion, melts your chains… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can't live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sometimes the bridges you burn light the way out of your darkness, but the memory of the blaze will be burned into… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in it… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters. A strongly marked personality can influence descendants for generations. Those blessed with a patriotic genetic legacy should run to the top of the mountain and roar with all fervency, “If they can over come, so will… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
