Gays feel about popularity the same way teenage girls do. Is it that we really want friends we can count on, or do we just want guys around us whom we can share our curlers with? — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists once believed blackness would. — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
We think of death and loss as tragic twins, but in fact it is loss that hurts us. — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Remember that that "rude awakening" which your parents and well-meaning relatives threatened you with as a kid is better than no awakening at all. — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
There may be a point in your life in which you are drowning so fast and fighting it so furiously that you don't have… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
One of the problems with technology is that no photograph, as superb and outstanding as it may be, will ever be as satisfying as… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Try to dwell on the people you'd like to love, instead of all the people you do loathe. — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Oscar Wilde said that the gods punish us in two ways: first, they don't give us what we want, then, they do. He forgot… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Start a conversation with someone with whom you have "nothing in common" and no possibility of scoring with, networking with, or even seeing again.… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
Realize that the banality around us that passes as "hipness" or "mass culture" is as satisfying as "mass food"-only it comes in much more… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
There are certain restaurants where you should photograph the food rather than eat it. These are great places to bring a narcissistic boyfriend before… — Perry Brass Copy Share Image
