“If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Commonsense will never come from following your heart; wisdom is only stored in the mind.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only side God chooses is one of commonsense. If it doesn’t make sense; it is not God.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A best friend is the one person that doesn't leave you worse off by their actions or yours.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Long standing hatred between a man and a woman is just unspoken attraction that has bruised egos.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“We were meant to rescue each other, not cut down the forest to rescue one.” — shannon l. alder Copy Share Image
“Never pray to be a better slave when God is trying to get you out of your situation.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A wise woman protects her kids. A wiser woman hangs out with police officers, retired FBI agents and private investigators.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing to confess.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Staying for your children is noble. However, staying with someone that teaches your children that "selective" evilness is okay is mental illness.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Happiness is not intelligence. You can be in a group of happy people, but they may be miles off course.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can't always expect people to apply your wisdom when they didn't use wisdom before they found themselves knee deep in their… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Money isn't the solution to your problems. It only lets you carry your unhappiness around in style.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows people to be comfortable.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you are standing in the middle of a storm you have two choices: Pray to God that it goes away. Or,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Not every person wants the prettiest, smartest, talented or spiritually uplifting person to build a life with. Sometimes we just want that… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Be careful of living your life based only on faith and signs, or you might find yourself standing in a South American… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the homeless, mentally ill or extremely cunning people that we have to be afraid of. When someone loses everything… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can't fight hatred with hatred and expect anyone to listen to you. You can only try to lessen it with humor,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never allow yourself to become a choice in any relationship. The moment you do is when you have reduced your loved one's… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never mistake the uncomfortable feeling of insecurity and the fear of the unknown with the Holy Ghost’s promptings. Sometimes those feelings are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never presume to know a person based on the one dimensional window of the internet. A soul can’t be defined by critics,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Naive people tend to generalize people as—-good, bad, kind, or evil based on their actions. However, even the smartest person in the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not your talents that make you great, but your decisions.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling them how desperate you are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
