When I behold other people, who are of course the children…
““When I behold other people, who are of course the children of some family or other, and think of my own children, and of myself...I am astonished at how sensible, well-behaved, practical, courteous, and predictable these other children are. The other children are so easy about the whole business of being who they are, being in the world, and getting along. Whereas with us it is an awful fight, all the way. I am left with the conclusion that we are quite probably crazy, but somehow not in a way that compels commitment. We get over our rampages before society or clinical insanity charges in on us. I can think of very few of us who are not nuts. And that's not at our worst, that's pretty much as we always are. We find fault with everything. The world stinks, and even long after we have reconciled ourselves to that truth, we still regret it, and now and then even rage against it. Running through the various branches of the family I fail to find one branch which might be said to be nice- ordinary, sober, adjusted, willing, courteous, undemanding, charming, practical, predictable, and all of the other things nice people are. Lunacy runs straight down the middle of every branch of my family. We have nobody who is not some kind of nut. What did it? How did it happen? Well, there's no answer, of course.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The author observes that every family member exhibits quirks and irrationality, suggesting universal human imperfection and the difficulty of finding truly ordinary behavior.
In simple terms: Everyone shows oddities; no one is completely normal.
Accept human flaws and embrace shared imperfection.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- self‑analysis
- therapeutic discussions
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “normal” truly mean?
- How can we balance acceptance with self‑improvement?
The view may overgeneralize and ignore genuine stability in some individuals.