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“Feelings are only your history being occasioned by the present moment. If that's your enemy, then your history is your enemy. If sensations are your enemy, your body is your enemy. And if memory is your enemy, you'd better have a way of controlling your mind in such a way that you never are…” quote by Steven C. Hayes
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“Feelings are only your history being occasioned by the present moment. If that's your enemy, then your history is your enemy. If sensations are your enemy, your body is your enemy. And if memory is your enemy, you'd better have a way of controlling your mind in such a way that you never are reminded of things that are painful from the past. If you avoid people, avoid having your buttons pushed, avoid going to places that might occasion anxiety; if you're hammering down drugs and alcohol; these are all methods of trying to mount that unhealthy agenda.”

Steven C. Hayes

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage argues that past feelings, sensations, and memories become enemies when we let them dominate, urging control over the mind to avoid pain.

In simple terms: Past experiences can become harmful if uncontrolled.

Key Takeaway

Learn to manage thoughts and emotions.

Themes

mindfulness psychology self‑control

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

therapeutic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • personal growth
  • stress management

Key Concepts

cognitive therapy acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance acceptance with control?
  • What practices help prevent past pain from dictating present life?
A Different Perspective

Controlling the mind is challenging and may suppress needed processing.

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