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“Anger is considered especially bad. Anger is one of the seven deadly sins. These sins send you to hell. In its most accurate teaching, the deadly sin is not really the emotion of anger, but the behaviors resulting from anger. Behaviors often linked to anger are screaming, cursing, hitting…” quote by John Bradshaw
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““Anger is considered especially bad. Anger is one of the seven deadly sins. These sins send you to hell. In its most accurate teaching, the deadly sin is not really the emotion of anger, but the behaviors resulting from anger. Behaviors often linked to anger are screaming, cursing, hitting, publically criticizing or condemning someone and physical violence. These behaviors are certainly prohibitive. They are behaviors based on judgment, rather than emotions. Many children are shamed for their anger. Children often see parents angry and rageful. The message is all too often that it’s okay for parents to be angry, but it’s not okay for children.””

John Bradshaw

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Anger itself isn’t the sin; it’s the harmful actions it provokes, like aggression or harsh judgment, especially when modeled to children.

In simple terms: Anger’s danger lies in destructive behavior, not the feeling.

Key Takeaway

Teach healthy expression of anger.

Themes

emotion behavior parenting shame violence

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

educational advisory

When to use this quote

  • family dynamics
  • child upbringing
  • conflict resolution
  • emotional intelligence

Key Concepts

psychology moral teaching social learning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you model constructive anger?
  • What boundaries help children express frustration safely?
A Different Perspective

Not all anger leads to harm; context and intent matter.

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