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“Oh! to be sure," cried Emma, "it is always incomprehensible to a man that a woman should ever refuse an offer of marriage. A man always imagines a woman to be ready for any body who asks her.” quote by Jane Austen
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““Oh! to be sure," cried Emma, "it is always incomprehensible to a man that a woman should ever refuse an offer of marriage. A man always imagines a woman to be ready for any body who asks her.””

Jane Austen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A woman’s refusal of marriage confounds men, who assume women are always eager to accept.

In simple terms: Men expect women to always say yes to marriage proposals.

Key Takeaway

Challenge assumptions about gender and consent.

Themes

gender roles marriage expectations miscommunication

Mood

critical ironic

Type

literary social commentary

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • family negotiations
  • social gatherings
  • historical context

Key Concepts

social norms female agency

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do modern readers see this as satire?
  • How have expectations changed?
A Different Perspective

Historical context differs from modern consent standards.

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