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“In all matrimonial associations there is, I believe, one constant factor - a desire to deceive the person with whom one lives as to some weak spot in one's character or in one's career. For it is intolerable to live constantly with one human being who perceives one's small meannesses. It is really…” quote by Ford Madox Ford
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““In all matrimonial associations there is, I believe, one constant factor - a desire to deceive the person with whom one lives as to some weak spot in one's character or in one's career. For it is intolerable to live constantly with one human being who perceives one's small meannesses. It is really death to do so - that is why so many marriages turn out unhappily.””

Ford Madox Ford

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriages often hide personal flaws; constant exposure to a partner’s imperfections can feel suffocating, leading to unhappiness.

In simple terms: Marriage can reveal hidden flaws.

Key Takeaway

Address flaws openly.

Themes

marriage deception human nature

Mood

melancholic analytical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • Therapy sessions
  • marital counseling
  • personal reflection
  • literary analysis

Key Concepts

Psychology of intimacy relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What role does honesty play in marriage?
  • How can partners mitigate each other’s weaknesses?
A Different Perspective

Not all marriages are doomed by flaws alone.

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