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“Early as it was, every one had breakfasted, and my basin of bread and milk was put on the oven-top to await my coming down. Every one was gone about their work. The first to come into the house-place was Phillis with a basket of eggs. Faithful to my resolution, I asked - "What are those?" She…” quote by Elizabeth Gaskell
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““Early as it was, every one had breakfasted, and my basin of bread and milk was put on the oven-top to await my coming down. Every one was gone about their work. The first to come into the house-place was Phillis with a basket of eggs. Faithful to my resolution, I asked - "What are those?" She looked at me for a moment, and then said gravely - "Potatoes!" "No! they are not," said I. "They are eggs. What do you mean by saying they are potatoes?" "What do you mean by asking me what they were, when they are plain to be seen?" retorted she. We were both getting a little angry with each other.””

Elizabeth Gaskell

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Miscommunication arises when assumptions replace clear observation, leading to frustration.

In simple terms: Assuming things without checking causes conflict.

Key Takeaway

Seek clarification before reacting.

Themes

communication assumptions conflict

Mood

thoughtful calm

Type

narrative teaching

When to use this quote

  • family meals
  • workplace meetings
  • customer service
  • team projects

Key Concepts

perception dialogue empathy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What can you do to verify facts?
  • How does listening reduce anger?
A Different Perspective

Over‑reliance on assumptions can erode relationships.

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