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“When other people first became aware of the cow, they expressed concern and anxiety. They suggested strategies for getting the animal out of Molly's parlor: remedies and doctors and procedures, some mainstream and some New Age. They related anecdotes of friends who had removed their own cows in…” quote by Alison Lurie
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“When other people first became aware of the cow, they expressed concern and anxiety. They suggested strategies for getting the animal out of Molly's parlor: remedies and doctors and procedures, some mainstream and some New Age. They related anecdotes of friends who had removed their own cows in one way or another. But after a while they had exhausted their suggestions. Then they usually began to pretend that the cow wasn't there, and they preferred for Molly to go along with the pretense.”

Alison Lurie

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People initially overreact to a problem, offering many solutions, but eventually ignore it, preferring denial over continued effort.

In simple terms: Initial concern fades into denial.

Key Takeaway

Address issues directly rather than ignore them.

Themes

denial problem solving social dynamics avoidance community

Mood

concerned critical

Type

observational analytical

When to use this quote

  • family health
  • workplace conflict
  • community projects
  • personal habits

Key Concepts

psychology behavioral economics groupthink

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we avoid confronting persistent issues?
  • What strategies keep attention on unresolved problems?
A Different Perspective

Denial can prevent necessary action and prolong problems.

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