The cultural expectation should be if there's infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy or some RomCom dream man. But where's… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Only someone obsessed with sexual fidelity to an unhealthy degree places a higher value on preserving the ideal of monogamous marriage over… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Most Americans don't care about gay marriage. But it matters very much to the knuckle-draggers and Christianists and whack jobs in Bush's… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm always telling people who say two men can't make a baby: 'Anything is possible for God. I'm going to keep inseminating… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
My husband Terry and I are mostly monogamous. . . . There are times — certain set and limited circumstances — when… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
When you're a writer, you want to try to avoid cliches. Unfortunately, when you're writing about marriage or family, all cliches seem… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
“For me, my discomfort with gay weddings was articulated by a close friend, who observed that gay people getting married is like… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Straight couples don't have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I think it's going to take three or four generations of gay people being able to get married before it starts feeling… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
If sex isn't an important part of your marriage, you can't beef if your wife or husband does this unimportant thing with… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
It's going to take generations of gay people marrying before these things start to feel natural. We haven't had it long enough… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
...even if gay marriage were legalized there would still be gay men who didn't want to marry, gay men no other gay… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I don't think that gay and lesbian relationships are identical to heterosexual relationships. I do think that heterosexual weddings, or at least… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Preaching to the choir actually arms the choir with arguments and elevates the choir's discourse. There's a reason the right does it and does… — Dan Savage Copy Share
Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face. — Dan Savage Copy Share
Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over. — Dan Savage Copy Share
I get letters every year from women who think Valentine's Day is an empty exercise, but are ironically pretty exercised when their boyfriends neglect… — Dan Savage Copy Share
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene. — Dan Savage Copy Share
And that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home… — Dan Savage Copy Share
I'm one of those gay people who's constantly reminded of how fortunate I am to live now and not to be Ennis and Jack… — Dan Savage Copy Share
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do… — Dan Savage Copy Share
There's a big mistake the left has made with talking to religious people, which is attempting to talk them out of their interpretations of… — Dan Savage Copy Share
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous. — Dan Savage Copy Share
I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out… — Dan Savage Copy Share
“Either way... you've got to tell him--in no uncertain terms--to knock it the fuck off already. Don't be measured, don't wrap it up in… — Dan Savage Copy Share
When you're young and queer and closeted, you can end up in this place where you regard your straight peers as the enemy. — Dan Savage Copy Share
