Adversity Quote by William Ury
““have come to the conclusion that the greatest obstacle to getting what we really want in life is not the other party, as difficult as he or she can be. The biggest obstacle is actually ourselves. We get in our own way.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Getting to Yes by William Ury, 1981
We often block our own success more than external obstacles, because self‑doubt and fear create internal barriers.
In simple terms: We are our own biggest obstacle.
Recognize and overcome self‑imposed limits.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- relationship negotiations
- habit change
- goal setting
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal belief holds you back?
- How can you reframe self‑doubt into motivation?
Self‑criticism can paralyze progress if not addressed.