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Adversity Quote by William Ury

“have come to the conclusion that the greatest obstacle to getting what we really want in life is not the other party, as difficult as he or she can be. The biggest obstacle is actually ourselves. We get in our own way.” quote by William Ury
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““have come to the conclusion that the greatest obstacle to getting what we really want in life is not the other party, as difficult as he or she can be. The biggest obstacle is actually ourselves. We get in our own way.””

William Ury

About This Quote

Source Book: Getting to Yes by William Ury, 1981

We often block our own success more than external obstacles, because self‑doubt and fear create internal barriers.

In simple terms: We are our own biggest obstacle.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and overcome self‑imposed limits.

Themes

self‑sabotage personal growth mindset

Mood

reflective determined

Type

advice motivational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • relationship negotiations
  • habit change
  • goal setting

Key Concepts

psychology self‑awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What internal belief holds you back?
  • How can you reframe self‑doubt into motivation?
A Different Perspective

Self‑criticism can paralyze progress if not addressed.

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