Communication Quote by Wendell Berry
““In a conversation, you always expect a reply. And if you honor the other party to the conversation, if you honor the otherness of the other party, you understand that you must not expect always to receive a reply that you foresee or a reply that you will like.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Otherness of Conversation”, 1975
In dialogue, you should not always expect a reply that matches your expectations or preferences; honor the other’s perspective.
In simple terms: Expect varied responses; respect others.
Listen without demanding agreement.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- negotiations
- friendships
- conflict resolution
- teaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you handle unexpected or disagreeable replies?
- What practices foster respectful listening?
Some replies may be harmful.