Apathy Quote by Warsan Shire
“Mother says there are locked rooms inside all women, kitchen of love, bedroom of grief, bathroom of apathy. Sometimes, the men, they come with keys, and sometimes the men, they come with hammers.”
About This Quote
Source Poetry Collection: Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth, 2011
Women hold hidden emotional spaces; men may try to access them gently or forcefully.
In simple terms: Women have secret feelings; men can enter with care or aggression.
Respect emotional boundaries and seek consent.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- conflict resolution
- creative writing
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we honor private emotional rooms?
- When is it appropriate to offer help?
Not all attempts to understand are welcomed; force can cause harm.