Habits Quote by Walter Wangerin Jr
““In the bedroom the truer, unpremeditated behavior of intimacy appears, the way this spouse relates to others on the most personal level, body to body and soul to soul. Is he truly patient in sexuality? So he seemed on long spring evenings. Or does he push forward at his own speed to his own satisfaction? And does he consider his satisfaction the measure of his prowess? As he acts here, uncovered, so does he act—more subtly and covertly—in the rest of the marriage.” P35””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Book of the Dun Cow? Actually unknown source, possibly a personal essay, null
Intimacy reveals true patience and self‑interest; partners may act differently in private versus public, exposing deeper motives.
In simple terms: Intimacy shows true motives.
Key Takeaway
Observe and discuss private behavior patterns.
Themes
relationships
intimacy
self‑interest
patience
authenticity
Mood
thoughtful
introspective
Type
psychological
relationship
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- relationship workshops
- personal introspection
Key Concepts
psychology
marital dynamics
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you act differently when observed?
- What does patience look like in intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Intimacy may be performative, not fully revealing.
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