Love Quote by Virginia Woolf
““Love and religion! thought Clarissa, going back into the drawing-room, tingling all over. How detestable, how detestable they are! For now that the body of Miss Kilman was not before her, it overwhelmed her — the idea. The cruelest things in the world, she thought, seeing them clumsy, hot, domineering, hypocritical, eavesdropping, jealous, infinitely cruel and unscrupulous, dressed in a mackintosh coat, on the landing; love and religion. Had she ever tried to convert any one herself? Did she not wish everybody merely to be themselves? And she watched out of the window the old lady opposite climbing upstairs. Let her climb upstairs if she wanted to; let her stop; then let her, as Clarissa had often seen her, gain her bedroom, part her curtains, and disappear again into the background. Somehow one respected that — that old woman looking out of the window, quite unconscious that she was being watched. There was something solemn in it — but love and religion would destroy that, whatever it was, the privacy of the soul. The odious Kilman would destroy it. Yet it was a sight that made her want to cry. Love destroyed too. Everything that was fine, everything that was true went. Take Peter Walsh now. There was a man, charming, clever, with ideas about everything. If you wanted to know about Pope, say, or Addison, or just to talk nonsense, what people were like, what things meant, Peter knew better than any one. It was Peter who had helped her; Peter who had lent her books. But look at the women he loved — vulgar, trivial, commonplace. Think of Peter in love — he came to see her after all these years, and what did he talk about? Himself. Horrible passion! she thought. Degrading passion! she thought, thinking of Kilman and her Elizabeth walking to the Army and Navy Stores.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Mrs Dalloway by Virginia Woolf, 1925
Clarissa perceives love and religion as oppressive forces that threaten personal privacy and authenticity, contrasting them with the intrusive, judgmental presence of others.
In simple terms: Love and religion feel oppressive, threatening inner privacy.
Beware how external expectations can erode personal freedom.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- interpersonal relationships
- cultural critique
- self‑identity formation
- narrative analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do societal pressures shape our inner lives?
- Can love and faith ever coexist with true privacy?
The view may overlook love’s capacity for connection and religion’s potential for community.