Female friendship Quote by Virginia Woolf
““And I tried to remember any case in the course of my reading where two women are represented as friends. (...) almost without exception they are shown in their relation to men. (...) [women in fiction were] not only seen by the other sex, but seen only in relation to the other sex. And how small a part of a woman's life is that””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Mrs Dalloway, 1925
The quote critiques how literature historically defines women only through their relationships to men, ignoring their independent identities.
In simple terms: Women are often shown only in relation to men in fiction.
Recognize and create narratives that portray women as autonomous individuals.
Themes
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Type
When to use this quote
- writing workshops
- teaching literature
- media analysis
- creative writing
- gender studies
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we rewrite stories to center women's own perspectives?
- What impact does relational framing have on readers' perceptions of women?
May overlook women's internal experiences and agency beyond relational contexts.