Blank canvas Quote by Tristan Taormino
““EXERCISE Creating Authentic Relationships The questions below deal with issues most people take for granted and let society define for them. You can start with a blank canvas and create your own definitions. • How do you define intimacy and closeness? • What constitutes a relationship for you? • Are there different types of relationships you wish you could have? • How long should a significant relationship last? • What is sex? Is it intercourse? Is it more specific: penis-in-vagina or penis-in-ass intercourse? What about manual stimulation and penetration, oral sex, sex toys, BDSM play? • What kinds of things do you consider intimate? Sex, sexual touch, genital contact, a BDSM scene with no sexual aspect? • Must you live near a partner for a relationship to be important? • How do you define fidelity? • What constitutes loving, affectionate, sexual, and romantic behavior? Where do things like flirting, kissing, love letters, gift giving, dating, courting, phone calls, emails, and instant messages fit into your definitions? • What does commitment mean to you? How do you define a committed relationship? • What are the most important things you need in a relationship? • How important is it for you to live with a partner? • Realistically , how much time and energy do you have to give to a relationship? ””
About This Quote
A guide prompting deep self‑examination of how individuals define intimacy, fidelity, and commitment, encouraging personal definitions beyond societal norms.
In simple terms: Self‑reflection on personal relationship values.
Key Takeaway
Define your own relationship terms.
Themes
Intimacy
Fidelity
Commitment
Sexuality
Personal autonomy
Communication
Mood
Curiosity
Introspection
Type
Reflective prompt
Self‑help guide
When to use this quote
- Couples counseling
- Personal journaling
- Therapeutic workshops
- Online dating profiles
- Friendship circles
Key Concepts
Relationship boundaries
Sexual expression
Emotional needs
Lifestyle logistics
Practical Applications
- Designing relationship contracts
- Facilitating honest conversations
Questions to Reflect On
- What assumptions am I making about relationships that might limit me?
- How could redefining intimacy improve my connections?
