Attracted People Quote by Tristan Taormino
““Nonmonogamous folks recognize that during a lifetime you can and will be attracted to other people even if you are in a wonderful, fulfilling relationship; they make room in their relationship for these attractions rather than allow them to cause anxiety, jealousy, and unreasonable expectations.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Ethical Slut, Tristan Taormino, 1997
Recognizing that attraction to others is natural, ethical nonmonogamy encourages openness and managing feelings rather than suppressing them.
In simple terms: Accept attraction, communicate openly.
Key Takeaway
Embrace openness, manage jealousy.
Themes
relationships
communication
sexuality
trust
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- long‑term partnership
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
Key Concepts
polyamory
boundary setting
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you discuss new attractions without fear?
- What boundaries help keep trust intact?
A Different Perspective
Ignoring attraction can breed resentment and anxiety.
