Automatically Quote by Tom "Big Al" Schreiter
““us, “How are you doing?” ... without even thinking, we automatically reply, “Oh, just over death,” or “Fantastic!” depending on our internal programs.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast on Social Behavior, 2023
People often give automatic, scripted responses to common greetings, reflecting internal conditioning rather than genuine feeling.
In simple terms: We reply with rehearsed phrases.
Key Takeaway
Pause before answering to ensure honesty.
Themes
social behavior
habit
authenticity
psychology
Mood
reflective
observational
Type
psychology
social commentary
When to use this quote
- daily greetings
- customer service
- team meetings
- online chats
Key Concepts
automaticity
social scripts
self‑awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- What automatic response do you use most?
- How could you make your replies more authentic?
A Different Perspective
Habitual replies can mask true emotions and hinder connection.
