Able Quote by Thomas a Kempis
“Endeavor to be always patient of the faults and imperfections of others; for thou hast many faults and imperfections of thine own that require forbearance. If thou art not able to make thyself that which thou wishest, how canst thou expect to mold another in conformity to thy will?”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ, Thomas à Kempis, 1418
Recognize your own flaws before judging others; self‑improvement precedes trying to change people.
In simple terms: Know your own faults before criticizing others.
Key Takeaway
Focus on self‑growth first.
Themes
humility
self‑awareness
empathy
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- leadership
- relationships
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Christian ethics
personal development
Questions to Reflect On
- What personal flaw have you overlooked?
- How can you model the change you desire in others?
A Different Perspective
Self‑criticism can be paralyzing if not balanced with constructive action.
