All things Quote by Thomas a Kempis
“If thou canst not make thyself such an one as thou wouldst, how canst thou expect to have another in all things to thy liking?”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ, 1418
One must first become the kind of person they wish to attract; self‑improvement precedes seeking others.
In simple terms: Improve yourself before seeking others.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate desired qualities within yourself.
Themes
self‑improvement
relationships
virtue
expectations
Mood
reflective
motivational
serious
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- dating
- leadership
- team building
- mentoring
Key Concepts
personal growth
ethical conduct
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you model the traits you desire?
- What self‑changes are most impactful?
A Different Perspective
Changing others is unrealistic.
