Marriage Quote by Théophile Gautier
““What is certain is that the world has got beyond the stage at which one may affect modesty and maidenly shame, and I think that the world is too old a duffer to assume to be childish and maidenly without becoming ridiculous. Since its marriage to civilization society has forfeited its right to be ingenuous and prudish. There is a blush which beseems the bride as she is being bedded, which would be out of place on the morrow; for the young wife mayhap remembers no more what it is to be a girl, or, if she does remember it, it is very indecent, and seriously compromises the reputation of the husband.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Preface to "Mademoiselle de Maupin", 1835
The quote critiques modern society's loss of innocence and modesty, suggesting that civilization forces people to abandon youthful naiveté, making genuine shame or blush seem outdated and absurd.
In simple terms: Society has outgrown modesty, making old-fashioned shame seem ridiculous.
Key Takeaway
Embrace authenticity over outdated modesty.
Themes
society
modesty
civilization
authenticity
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
social commentary
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- social commentary
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
cultural critique
psychology
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- How does civilization shape our sense of shame?
- Can authenticity coexist with social expectations?
A Different Perspective
Modern norms can suppress genuine emotional expression.
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