Action Quote by Terri E Apter
“Adolescents, for all their self-involvement, are emerging from the self-centeredness of childhood. Their perception of other people has more depth. They are better equipped at appreciating others' reasons for action, or the basis of others' emotions. But this maturity functions in a piecemeal fashion. They show more understanding of their friends, but not of their teachers.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Adolescence and Identity, Terri E. Apter, 1990
Adolescents begin to look beyond themselves, understanding others more deeply, though often only with peers, not authority figures.
In simple terms: Teens grow empathy, especially toward friends, but may still miss adult perspectives.
Cultivate empathy with both peers and adults.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- school interactions
- family discussions
- peer counseling
- mentor relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can teens be encouraged to empathize with teachers?
- What activities foster cross-generational understanding?
Understanding adults may require deliberate effort and guidance.