Adolescent Quote by Terri E Apter
“This is the hope of many adolescent girls--to capture a parent's heart with love for them as they are, as people. They reject thenotion of being loved just because they are the child of the parent. They want the parent to fall in love with them all over again, because being new, they deserve a new love.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Teenage Brain by Terri E. Apter, 1998
Adolescent girls seek genuine love for who they are, not just because of their parental relationship, wanting renewed affection that reflects their personal identity.
In simple terms: Girls want love for themselves, not just as a child.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate authentic connections based on personal qualities.
Themes
identity
love
adolescence
family
self‑esteem
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
psychological
relationship
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversations
- therapy sessions
- school counseling
- family meals
- personal journaling
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental growth
emotional needs
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents show love for their teen’s individuality?
- What actions foster mutual respect in evolving family dynamics?
A Different Perspective
Parents may struggle to see beyond the child role, making renewed intimacy challenging.
