Ability Quote by Terri E Apter
“Parenting can be established as a time-share job, but mothers are less good "switching off" their parent identity and turning to something else. Many women envy the father's ability to set clear boundaries between home and work, between being an on-duty and an off-duty parent… Women work very hard to maintain a closeness to their child. Father's value intimacy with a child, but often do not know how to work to maintain it.”
About This Quote
Source Article: Parenting Dynamics, 2015
Mothers often struggle to detach from parental identity, while fathers more easily set work‑life boundaries, affecting family intimacy.
In simple terms: Mothers find it harder to switch off parenting.
Key Takeaway
Establish clear personal boundaries.
Themes
parenting
gender roles
work‑life balance
identity
Mood
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- career planning
- family time
- self‑care
- relationship building
Key Concepts
boundary setting
role negotiation
Questions to Reflect On
- How can mothers create healthy boundaries?
- What support helps fathers stay emotionally available?
A Different Perspective
Cultural expectations may pressure mothers to be constantly present.
