Adoption Quote by Suzanne Finnamore
““This is much worse than losing a cat. You do not wish the cat dead, for example, after the first two days. You still love the cat and presumably the cat still loves you, or some variation of love that may in fact be dependence and even indifference. People should be informed, as adopting a cat and becoming married take about the same amount of time and money and yet have such drastically different results. Indeed, except for the similar price($28)and the average time spent together, all similarity between pet adoption and marriage ends nastily.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “Pet Adoption vs. Marriage”, 2018
Comparing pet adoption to marriage highlights superficial similarities while exposing deeper relational differences.
In simple terms: Pet adoption and marriage differ despite surface likeness.
Key Takeaway
Recognize deeper commitments beyond superficial parallels.
Themes
relationships
commitment
expectations
Mood
analytical
critical
Type
comparative
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- pet adoption decisions
- financial planning
Key Concepts
social contract theory
attachment styles
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations do you bring to long‑term partnerships?
- How do financial considerations shape commitment?
A Different Perspective
Assumes all marriages are comparable to pet ownership.
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