Cheating Quote by Suzanne Finnamore
““People told me not to get married; I didn´t listen. No one ever listens, it seems to me now. Perhaps people should stop trying to communicate. N was not a communicator; early on, I´d insisted on communication. Now I see his point acutely. I would love to have him back to not communicate with me. I would never ask for communication again, I would simply go elsewhere for the deep fish. Also, I´m not at all sure I want to hear what he has to say in this new vista. This works out well.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal essay, date unknown
The speaker reflects on failed communication, preferring silence and seeking depth elsewhere, indicating disillusionment with conventional interaction.
In simple terms: She prefers silence and seeks deeper connection elsewhere.
Key Takeaway
Embrace silence and seek deeper fulfillment.
Themes
communication
relationships
disillusionment
solitude
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
personal
philosophical
When to use this quote
- breakups
- personal growth
- seeking meaning
- alternative connections
Key Concepts
interpersonal dynamics
psychology
existentialism
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you avoid communication to protect yourself?
- What deeper connections can you pursue without words?
A Different Perspective
Silence may hinder resolution and deepen isolation.
