Abuse Quote by Susan Weitzman
““Once this bubble of self-deception is burst and the mask that shielded her and others from what she wished to ignore is lifted, it is difficult for the woman to return to her life as it was. It has been said that “the discovery of a deceiving principle, a lying activity within us, can furnish an absolutely new view of all conscious life.” This reawakened awareness changes the upscale abused woman’s life forever. Suddenly, new choices stand before her. This can be a frightening and sad phase in therapy, a moment when the woman is grappling with a kaleidoscope of loss and potential future gain. Some women experience this period as the dark night of the soul. It can be sickening to face the truths one has chosen to ignore in hopes of maintaining the status quo. Even if the woman wishes to stay married, she will never perceive her life in the same way again.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Upside of Being a Woman, Susan Weitzman, 2015
Realizing a hidden self‑deception forces a profound shift in identity, leading to painful but transformative choices.
In simple terms: Seeing truth changes life forever.
Key Takeaway
Embrace the discomfort to grow.
Themes
self‑awareness
transformation
psychology
gender
therapy
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
psychological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal therapy
- support groups
- self‑reflection sessions
Key Concepts
identity
cognitive dissonance
existential crisis
Questions to Reflect On
- How can one support a partner through this awakening?
- What new possibilities emerge after confronting denial?
A Different Perspective
The process can be overwhelming and may destabilize relationships.
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