Expectations Quote by Stephanie Coontz
““Never before in history had societies thought that such a set of high expectations about marriage was either realistic or desirable. Although many Europeans and Americans found tremendous joy in building their relationships around these values, the adoption of these unprecedented goals for marriage had unanticipated and revolutionary consequences that have since come to threaten the stability of the entire institution.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage, Stephanie Coontz, 2005
High marital expectations reshaped marriage, causing unintended instability.
In simple terms: Unrealistic expectations destabilize marriage.
Key Takeaway
Reevaluate marital expectations.
Themes
marriage
expectations
societal change
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
analytical
historical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- educational programs
- policy discussion
Key Concepts
historical analysis
cultural norms
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations are harmful?
- How can couples set realistic goals?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing marriage may ignore individual needs.
