Add Quote by Spencer W. Kimball
“Every divorce is the result of selfishness on the part of one or the other or both parties to a marriage contract. Someone is thinking of self comforts, conveniences, freedoms, luxuries, or ease. Sometimes the ceaseless pin pricking of an unhappy, discontented, and selfish spouse can finally add up to serious physical violence. Sometimes people are goaded to the point where they erringly feel justified in doing the things that are so wrong. Nothing of course justifies sin.”
About This Quote
Divorce often stems from selfishness and unmet personal desires, which can escalate to conflict and even violence, though no justification exists for wrongdoing.
In simple terms: Selfishness can ruin marriages.
Key Takeaway
Address selfish motives early.
Themes
marriage
conflict
selfishness
Mood
serious
reflective
Type
ethical
cautionary
When to use this quote
- counseling
- marriage education
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
ethical responsibility
violence
Questions to Reflect On
- What steps can prevent selfishness from harming relationships?
- How can couples address personal freedoms healthily?
A Different Perspective
Not all selfishness leads to violence; context matters.
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