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Communication Quote by Sherry Turkle

“Connecting in sips may work for gathering discreet bits of information, they may work for saying, "I'm thinking about you," or even for saying, "I love you," but they don't really work for learning about each other, for really coming to know and understand each other. And we use conversations with…” quote by Sherry Turkle
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““Connecting in sips may work for gathering discreet bits of information, they may work for saying, "I'm thinking about you," or even for saying, "I love you," but they don't really work for learning about each other, for really coming to know and understand each other. And we use conversations with each other to learn how to have conversations with ourselves. So a flight from conversation can really matter because it can compromise our capacity for self-reflection. For kids growing up, that skill is the bedrock of development.””

Sherry Turkle

About This Quote

Source Book: Reclaiming Conversation by Sherry Turkle, 2015

Superficial chats via brief messages limit deep understanding; real conversation is essential for self‑reflection and development.

In simple terms: Brief messages limit deep connection.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize meaningful conversation.

Themes

communication self‑reflection development

Mood

thoughtful concerned

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child talks
  • team brainstorming
  • therapy sessions
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

digital distraction emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does texting affect your listening skills?
  • What habits foster deeper dialogue?
A Different Perspective

Digital convenience can erode depth of relationships.

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