Behavior Quote by Shefali Tsabary
““Neither is the goal to change a particular behavior. Our concern isn’t with “how to put my child to sleep” or “how to get my child to eat.” The principal task is to put spiritual foundations under both our child’s life and our own. This triggers a shift in the elemental way in which we relate to our children, with the result that their behavior automatically falls in line as they become aware of, and true to, who they really are. Behavioral changes are an outgrowth of a shift in the relationship.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Parenting from the Heart by Shefali Tsabary, 2015
True change comes from reshaping the underlying spiritual relationship, not from targeting specific actions.
In simple terms: Change roots in deeper connection, not tactics.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate spiritual foundations with children.
Themes
parenting
spirituality
relationships
behavioral change
Mood
reflective
hopeful
calm
Type
advice
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- family meals
- bedtime routines
- conflict resolution
- daily interactions
Key Concepts
attachment theory
mindful parenting
inner child
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you nurture spiritual connection daily?
- What habits reflect your true self?
A Different Perspective
If the spiritual bond is weak, behavior may still resist change.
![“[I'm a conscious parent when I] believe that my child is here to teach me as much about myself and how I need to grow, as I am here to teach them.” quote by Shefali Tsabary](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/016/shefali-tsabary-20212_believe_i-m-a-conscious-parent-when-i-believe-th_470317.jpg)
![“[I'm a conscious parent] when I stay away from fear-based control tactics - punishment, yelling and threats and I'm seeking more enlightened ways to create boundries with my child.” quote by Shefali Tsabary](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/88f/shefali-tsabary-20212_children_i-m-a-conscious-parent-when-i-stay-away_510315.jpg)
