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Abuse Quote by Shannon Thomas

“Survivors who repeatedly believe they are the problem, they are broken, and they are not good enough, are people who are never going to see the hidden abuse. Not because they don’t want to, but because they are looking in the wrong spot for answers. In therapy, we start to literally deprogram the…” quote by Shannon Thomas
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““Survivors who repeatedly believe they are the problem, they are broken, and they are not good enough, are people who are never going to see the hidden abuse. Not because they don’t want to, but because they are looking in the wrong spot for answers. In therapy, we start to literally deprogram the conscious and subconscious lies the abusers have planted in the survivors.””

Shannon Thomas

About This Quote

Source Therapy Workshop: Healing from abuse, 2021

Survivors often blame themselves, missing external sources of abuse; therapy helps reframe this narrative.

In simple terms: Self‑blame blocks healing; therapy can correct false beliefs.

Key Takeaway

Seek professional help to uncover hidden abuse patterns.

Themes

self‑blame healing therapy

Mood

hopeful empathetic

Type

therapeutic educational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • support groups
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology trauma recovery

Questions to Reflect On

  • What internal narratives hinder your healing?
  • How can you support someone stuck in self‑blame?
A Different Perspective

Therapy may not reach everyone; some may resist confronting trauma.

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