Abuse Quote by Shannon Thomas
““When an abuser gaslights, he or she sets up situations to make the target doubt their own memories and assessments of situations. This is done in order that survivors will become so unsure of themselves they hand over reign of their lives to the abusers.””
About This Quote
Abusers manipulate perception to erode a survivor’s confidence, forcing dependence.
In simple terms: Abusers make victims doubt themselves to control them.
Key Takeaway
Recognize manipulation and reclaim self‑trust.
Themes
psychological abuse
control
self‑esteem
survivor empowerment
Mood
anxious
determined
hopeful
Type
advice
educational
supportive
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- personal boundaries
- legal advocacy
Key Concepts
gaslighting
power dynamics
coercive control
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you verify your own memories?
- What steps restore confidence after gaslighting?
A Different Perspective
Survivors may still feel doubt despite awareness.
![“The getting out part [of advise] may well be true. Because if you have tried the tender love thing... typically the abuser is not going to change until they are pushed in a corner.” quote by Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/e10/gary-chapman-1325_abusers_the-getting-out-part-of-advise-may-well_178102.jpg)
