Having sex Quote by Ryan Holiday
““Epictetus told his students, when they’d quote some great thinker, to picture themselves observing the person having sex. It’s funny, you should try it the next time someone intimidates you or makes you feel insecure. See them in your mind, grunting, groaning, and awkward in their private life—just like the rest of us.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Daily Stoic, 2016
Imagining a revered figure in a mundane, flawed state can reduce intimidation and foster confidence.
In simple terms: Picture great people as ordinary to feel less insecure.
Key Takeaway
Use humor to deflate ego.
Themes
confidence
humor
stoicism
Mood
reflective
playful
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- social anxiety
- conflict situations
Key Concepts
psychology
perspective
self‑esteem
Questions to Reflect On
- What if you saw a role model in a vulnerable moment?
- How does humor change your reaction to intimidation?
A Different Perspective
May oversimplify complex ideas or offend believers.
