Accomplish Quote by Rudolf Dreikurs
“When a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer.”
About This Quote
Children should be encouraged by separating their actions from their identity, avoiding language that labels them as failures, thereby fostering resilience and growth mindset.
In simple terms: Separate the mistake from the child, avoid labeling them as failures.
Key Takeaway
Focus on effort, not outcome.
Themes
parenting
education
psychology
growth mindset
Mood
supportive
constructive
Type
educational
psychological
When to use this quote
- classroom
- family
- coaching
- mentor sessions
Key Concepts
positive reinforcement
non‑judgmental language
resilience building
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you praise effort without ignoring results?
- What language best supports learning after failure?
A Different Perspective
May be unrealistic in high‑stakes situations where accountability is needed.
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